Question: How can i get the confidence to change my image?

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Answer #1:

what piercing do you want and what look are u going for?
do what you want just go for it and dont let people get in the way

Answer #2:

Maybe get some of your bolder friends to try something out with you that way you don't feel like the only one!

Hope this helped!
Connie!

Answer #3:

You just need to remind yourself that when you're changing your appearance that it is for yourself, and not for anyone else. Remember that it only matters if you like it--dramatic transformations can be really therapeutic for your self confidence!~ Good luck!(:

Answer #4:

just think about it as this is what YOU want,

Your clothes;No-one is going to judge you and if they do then they are not worth worrying about i'm sure your look nice, ask a friends opinion before going out if you need to.

About your hair; if you think its going to look good then do it or before ask your friend what there honest opinion is, if they don't think it will suit you ask them to help you find a colour that will.

The piercings; if you don't feel confident getting then buy some magnetic ones from a shop like Claire's try them on and see how they look.

Answer #5:

1) dont dye your hair. you're better off keeping your natural color, cuz who knows in a couple weeks you're gonna hate your hair.
2) what kind of piercings do you want? really, you only need your ears pierced. and if you only wear a diamond, then a nose piercing is fine too. honestly, when people go crazy with belly button, lip, tongue and eyebrow piercings it's just disgusting.
3) the next time you go to the mall or out in public, before you leave, open your closet and take a deep breath. pull out those clothes that you're scared to wear and put them on. don't have any second thoughts about it. once you walk out, you'll feel a little bit more confident in yourself. and even if you feel like shrinking in a hole, just keep moving your feet toward your car. do not change your clothes. once your at the mall or whatever public place you're at, and you still feel cautious about yourself, act like you don't care about what you're wearing. act like you would wear it any day. you'll start to feel more confident in yourself. and besides, what are the chances you'll see anyone you know there?

hope i helped!





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